Stop being such jerks!

You know, some guys just piss me off.

I went on a date with this girl recently. We had a great time. We laughed, we enjoyed each others company and we'll likely go out again (Unless she reads this blog). Unfortunately, because of her ex-boyfriend, she's not very high on guys right now. She told me that she's, "not ready to date anyone else seriously right now because she's still hurt." She said this despite saying she is interested in me.

You know, I wish I could take this Ex behind a woodshed and whip is little punk butt. It's insecure, controlling jackasses like him that manipulate women and hurt them so much, that in certain cases women decide no man can ever make them happy, and they decide to "try lesbianism." (By the way I take no responsibility in turning three of my former girlfriends, Nakia, Valerie, or Nicki into lesbians. They were born that way.)

Now of course, not all women take as drastic of steps but many still decide they hate men for a period. That's the case of this latest woman. And as upset as I am with this ex-boyfriend, part of the blame should lie on the young female who has helped lead to my frustration.

I don't understand why women date losers. Why do you date guys that treat you like crap? Why?! Ladies, let's face it. At some point, every guy is going to be a jerk. EVERY GUY. Even the nice guys. So, if you date a guy who's a jerk now, in time, he'll only become a bigger jerk. Do you really want that? Sure, the beat down may be tolerable at first. But 5 years down the road you could be so battered and bruised emotionally, that you have little or nothing left at all to give someone. Someone who might be just what you've always wanted.

I know it may be hard at first, but girl.. it's time to forget about the zero, and get with the hero. Before it's too late and this opportunity passes.